Welcome back to our How to Start Homeschooling Series! In Part 8 I'm are going to tackle a topic that's often at the forefront of many parents' minds when they consider homeschooling: socialization. The stereotype of the homeschooler as socially isolated is outdated and inaccurate. In reality, homeschooling can offer a wide array of socialization opportunities that are both enriching and diverse. Let’s address common concerns and explore strategies for ensuring your homeschooled child is well-socialized and engaged with the world around them.
If you haven't read the previous parts, you can head to our How to Start Homeschooling page. Or you can jump straight to Part 1!
Addressing Concerns About Socialization
One of the most frequently voiced concerns about homeschooling is whether children will get enough social interaction. Many worry that without the built-in social environment of a traditional school, homeschooled children might miss out on crucial social development. However, the flexibility of homeschooling actually allows for MORE socialization. It also provides a socialization where parents can guide their children towards positive social experiences that align with their values and the child’s interests.
It makes sense logically. When you homeschool, you are able to teach your child the same information as public school, but in way less time since you are focusing on just your children. With more time in the school day, you can have purposeful and intentional socialization time for your kids. This is much different than the socialization that occurs when walking between classes or when working on projects together. The socialization done in homeschool will establish REAL relationships with others.
The Facts
Let's look at the research!
87% of peer-reviewed studies on social, emotional, and psychological development show homeschool students perform statistically significantly better than those in conventional schools.
(Ray, 2017)
The balance of research to date suggests that homeschool students may suffer less harm (e.g., abuse, neglect, fatalities) than conventional school students.
Research facts on homeschooling show that the home-educated are doing well, typically above average, on measures of social, emotional, and psychological development. Research measures include peer interaction, self-concept, leadership skills, family cohesion, participation in community service, and self-esteem.
69% of peer-reviewed studies on success into adulthood (including college) show adults who were home educated succeed and perform statistically significantly better than those who attended institutional schools.
(Ray, 2017)
You can read more homeschool research on the NHERI website.
Basic Strategies for Social Engagement
Here are some foundational strategies to foster social skills and create opportunities for interaction:
- Community Groups: Engage with local homeschooling groups, where children can meet and learn with others who are being educated at home. Read my series on How To Choose The Right Co-op.
- Extracurricular Activities: Enroll your child in sports teams, music classes, art workshops, or other interest-based activities that provide a regular social outlet.
- Volunteering: Encourage your child to volunteer for local charities or community projects, which can build character as well as provide interaction with a wide range of people.
- Social Field Trips: Organize educational trips with other homeschooling families, giving children the chance to learn and socialize simultaneously.
- Public Speaking: Involve your child in public speaking or debate clubs to develop communication skills and confidence.
- Religious Centers: Involve your family with a local church. Many churches have robust youth groups offering a variety of safe social events.
Choosing The Right Co-op Series
Preview of In-Depth Socialization Tactics in Our Course
For those who seek a deeper understanding of socialization strategies, our comprehensive course offers advanced tactics tailored to the unique nature of homeschooling. You will learn:
- Networking Skills: How to teach your child to build and maintain diverse social connections.
- Social Skill Building: Curriculum-integrated activities designed to enhance empathy, cooperation, and teamwork.
- Cultural Exchange: Opportunities for your child to engage with different cultures and perspectives to foster global awareness.
In the course, we dive into how to leverage the flexibility of homeschooling to create a rich social tapestry for your child.
Conclusion
Socialization in homeschooling is only as limited as one's imagination and initiative. With deliberate planning and an openness to community resources, homeschooled children can enjoy a social life that is comparable to and often exceeds that of their traditionally schooled peers. Join us for the next installment in our series, where we’ll discuss how to assess your child's knowledge and progress.
Read part 9 here and learn about Assessing Progress!
Don't forget to check out our course for a wealth of detailed strategies on socialization and much more. Happy homeschooling!
